His Magical Moment

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Dad . . . Any parent  who has been divorced will tell you they have experienced a wee bit of fear over how the divorce has affected our children.  This is a perfect little story from one dad’s experience.   By Jim Smith I believe there comes a time in our lives when we question our worth; both our financial worth and our self worth. For me, over the last several years... Read More

His First Thanksgiving


This is wonderful little story comes from a good friend and avid Disfunctional Diva reader sharing his first post-divorce Thanksgiving.   by Jim Smith Some of my favorite memories of childhood, like most children, are of the holidays. It didn’t matter which holiday it was; these times were always stress-free and happy. The opportunity to see grandparents, aunts, uncles, and... Read More

How did I get here?

So how did we get to this point in our lives that we wonder why we are still half sane? I’m 48, working on wrapping up my third divorce.  I have three kids.  Oh, to be able to say one from each husband would be so white trash wonderful but really one is from #1 ex husband, and two are from #2 ex husband.  My third soon to be ex is, I guess, maybe my cougar experiment. I’m... Read More


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